With the prevalence of social media today, we are seeing many marriages negatively impacted by websites like Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. It is not uncommon for a spouse to become obsessed with posting pictures and in effect keeping a public diary of their life on social media sites. We have handled cases where a spouse loses interest in the relationship because they are too busy in their online world. We’ve had cases where a spouse will “over share” information and that will cause the other spouse to be resentful and offended by what was posted. Nothing you described is new to us. But before proceeding with the divorce you need to speak with your wife about the problem. Do your best to make her understand, from your point of view and the points of view of the children, what affect her online activities are having. If she doesn’t change, then it seems that divorce is inevitable. If you do proceed with a divorce, then you will both have to address issues like child custody, child support and, potentially, alimony.