In Alpharetta: Divorce and Alcoholism and Drug Addiction

Posted by William H. Sherman on Mar 31, 2014 | 0 Comments

Question: I was reading your blog and I have a question.  My wife and I are getting a divorce.  We live in Alpharetta.  Our kids go to school in Alpharetta.  My wife has a serious drinking problem and a drug problem.  She is always drinking something whether by herself or with her friends.  It could be beer, wine or liquor.  And her friends all drink too.  They're a bunch of alcoholics.  She's tried AA and NA.  She also abuses her anti-anxiety drugs and her depression medications.  I've caught her at breakfast with eggs, toast, vodka and anti-depressants.  She calls that her “little brunch.”

Even when she plays tennis her and her girlfriends are drinking.  Sometimes I wonder if the “A” in ALTA stands for alcoholic.  It's like the whole tennis team should be at an AA meeting.  The other day I caught her passed out in front of her favorite reality TV show – and it was 11:00 a.m.!!!!  I tried to take it as much as possible but since I travel a lot for work I'm scared that she'll do something dumb and hurt the kids just by mistake.  My son asked why “mommy drinks out of a smelly bottle when she drives me.”

What will a judge say when I show evidence (like a video and pictures) that show she has a drinking and drug problem?  We go to court in Fulton County.

Answer: As divorce and family lawyers, we receive many questions about a spouse's dependency on alcohol and/or drugs.  We understand your frustration.  Many people suffer from alcoholism and many people are drug addicts.  It cuts across all socio-economic demographics.  It just tends to be better hidden with wealthier people.  People who recognize that a problem exists and seek treatment should be congratulated.  AA and NA are both great programs that have helped millions of Americans.

As for how it will play out in court, that depends on factors like quality of evidence, the specific facts and circumstances of the matter and, of course, how a judge interprets it all.  In terms of custody issues, the standard is “best interests of the child.”  Accordingly, a judge will seek to act in a manner that is best for the children involved.  If your wife has anywhere near the problem you describe, that could certainly have a substantial impact on how the case is decided.  It sounds like the children could be in danger (particularly if she is drinking and driving; that is the crime of DUI).

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William H. Sherman

With a professional background that includes serving as a Senior Assistant County Attorney and as an Assistant Attorney General, attorney William H. Sherman has great experience, a broad range of legal knowledge and a proven record of success.  Each of Mr. Sherman's clients gets the full benefit of his experience.  Because attorney Sherman has worked for governmental organizations, large corporations and clerked for a judge, he has handled a wide variety of cases from negotiation and trial to successful appeal. Mr. Sherman is very proud of his reputation as a problem-solver who is always available to his clients.  Active in the community, Mr. Sherman and his wife, attorney Valerie Sherman, support many community organizations, sports teams and charities.  Call him now and let his experience work for you.


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