What Do You Know About Sex Addiction?

Posted by William H. Sherman on May 30, 2014 | 0 Comments

Question:  I don't think I can stay married to my wife any longer.  I think she's been cheating with a man at her work.  They work in Atlanta and we live here in Sandy Springs.  My wife was diagnosed as a sex addict and she cannot control her urges.  We've tried to send her to clinics for help but the addiction keeps coming back.  She admitted that they went to a strip club in Atlanta after work and she didn't come home that night; in fact she did not come home that entire weekend.  When I asked her where she was she said that she sometimes gets amnesia from working too hard.  I asked a doctor and he said that he had never heard of anyone getting amnesia from hard work.

Other than her sex addiction she's great.  She gives violin lessons to underprivileged children, she volunteers for North Fulton Community Charities and she coaches our daughter's softball team.

I was reading your blog and wanted to know if you have seen sex addiction ruin marriages.  I don't know where to turn and I'm not sure I want a divorce but we need to do something now.

Answer:  In our family law and divorce practice we have encountered sexual addiction.  Many psychiatrists, psychologists, therapists and counselors believe it to be a diagnosable progressive intimacy disorder.  We have seen the toll such an addiction takes on a marriage.  A major cause of divorce is addiction.

Obviously, the choice to divorce or not is yours.  But we have seen where counselling can be of great benefit to someone suffering from an addiction.  That addiction can be to alcohol, drugs, gambling or sex.

In the wake of golfer Tiger Woods' messy divorce, the New York Times had an informative blog discussion about sex addiction with a few noted experts, including Dr. Drew Pinsky, Maureen Canning and Dr. Joe Kort.

Infidelity is a ground for divorce in Georgia and your wife's actions could severely impact her ability to claim alimony, among other things.

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William H. Sherman

With a professional background that includes serving as a Senior Assistant County Attorney and as an Assistant Attorney General, attorney William H. Sherman has great experience, a broad range of legal knowledge and a proven record of success.  Each of Mr. Sherman's clients gets the full benefit of his experience.  Because attorney Sherman has worked for governmental organizations, large corporations and clerked for a judge, he has handled a wide variety of cases from negotiation and trial to successful appeal. Mr. Sherman is very proud of his reputation as a problem-solver who is always available to his clients.  Active in the community, Mr. Sherman and his wife, attorney Valerie Sherman, support many community organizations, sports teams and charities.  Call him now and let his experience work for you.


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